Just because
I've been trying to keep quiet about this for the past month or so, but today it's blatantly obvious and has made me a bit uncomfortable. My supervisor told me last month or so, this new guy at work has been wondering why I rarely venture out of the office since he's only seen me twice in the past month. My supervisor is like an uncle to me, so he teased me saying how the guy probably likes me. I made no big deal about it and said that he was probably just curious. He likes teasing me though cause he knows how strict my dad is and this kinda thing happens every so often. This guy finally caught me coming out of my car one morning and tried to get my name as he introduced himself. My supervisor said "See, I told you, he likes you!" with a big funny smile and chuckle.
After that, I kind of I tried to avoid paths especially when I knew he was in the next building and I need to speak with people in the other department. Today, however during lunch, he spotted me leaving the office and basically cornered me. I didn't think he would try to hold the conversation that long and ask a bunch of questions, but I tried to be polite. After speaking with him for nearly 10 minutes and inwardly saying "Don't mess with me, I'm out of your league" and excused myself and implied I had several obligation to attend to. I don't know if he took a hint. I mean come on, he asked me twice if was married! WTF?! Do I freaking look like I'm married?! People think I'm in highschool for goodness sake. Married? What twisted world does he live in? I'd understand if he asked if I had a boyfriend, but not married. Geez. I know there are plenty of people my age who are married, but that's not usually the first thing you ask a young woman. Well okay it wasn't the first thing he asked, but it was among the first few. It's kinda weird. I've never ever been asked if I was married! I mean, are you slow or something? Come on! And get this, he's 27, four years older than me. Why the hell is he asking about marriage?! *sigh* I don't know if I should feel angry, embarassed or flattered by that remark. Anyway, after that, I have no doubt in my mind he's interested. I was playing it cool for a while, but lately he's been trying to talk to me more often. To his defense, he's an okay guy though not my type and no chance in the world. Sorry. The things I tried to say obviously just went over his head. Well I hope I won't have to get trapped like that again. He practically attempted to ask my life story and my schedule (i.e. free time) and if I hang out. That's not a good sign. Anyway that's my beef today. Word of the wise to guys out there, if the girl is showing hints of uneasiness and disinterest, you should stop your game and quit before you make a fool of yourself. Just because a girl is nice to you, doesn't mean you have a shot with her. -_-
After that, I kind of I tried to avoid paths especially when I knew he was in the next building and I need to speak with people in the other department. Today, however during lunch, he spotted me leaving the office and basically cornered me. I didn't think he would try to hold the conversation that long and ask a bunch of questions, but I tried to be polite. After speaking with him for nearly 10 minutes and inwardly saying "Don't mess with me, I'm out of your league" and excused myself and implied I had several obligation to attend to. I don't know if he took a hint. I mean come on, he asked me twice if was married! WTF?! Do I freaking look like I'm married?! People think I'm in highschool for goodness sake. Married? What twisted world does he live in? I'd understand if he asked if I had a boyfriend, but not married. Geez. I know there are plenty of people my age who are married, but that's not usually the first thing you ask a young woman. Well okay it wasn't the first thing he asked, but it was among the first few. It's kinda weird. I've never ever been asked if I was married! I mean, are you slow or something? Come on! And get this, he's 27, four years older than me. Why the hell is he asking about marriage?! *sigh* I don't know if I should feel angry, embarassed or flattered by that remark. Anyway, after that, I have no doubt in my mind he's interested. I was playing it cool for a while, but lately he's been trying to talk to me more often. To his defense, he's an okay guy though not my type and no chance in the world. Sorry. The things I tried to say obviously just went over his head. Well I hope I won't have to get trapped like that again. He practically attempted to ask my life story and my schedule (i.e. free time) and if I hang out. That's not a good sign. Anyway that's my beef today. Word of the wise to guys out there, if the girl is showing hints of uneasiness and disinterest, you should stop your game and quit before you make a fool of yourself. Just because a girl is nice to you, doesn't mean you have a shot with her. -_-
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Monday, November 21, 2005
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